Trek Bike

This is the bike I plan on buying. It is a Trek road bike 2.1. My current trusty steed is fast becoming a thing of the past as I progress as a cyclist. I need a lighter, faster bike. A mountain bike with slicks is no longer cutting it. I've changed the pedals on my bike to clip on pedals and bought bike shoes. What a blast! I could not believe how it increased my speed!!! The cycling club I belong to is awesome. Suffolk County Bike Riders Association. You can find them on www.sbraweb.org. The people I ride with are very nice and very supportive as I learn. The socializing after the rides has been a lot of fun too! The cycling club has opened a whole new world to me!

Cycling clothes can be expensive. I love these three sites www.primalwear.com, www.teamestrogen.com and www.terrybicycles.com. Very cool stuff!

I'm also gearing up to get back into hiking and try another backpacking trip. I'm currently on a wait list for a Fall backpacking trip I really want to go on - stay tuned!

Friends Come and Go

In my case I have one friend who comes and goes and comes and goes and comes and goes. Well, the friend is gone again. Blogs about it too. She's a friend who I have had a lot of fun with at times. I even thought of her like a sister. I guess we fight like sisters too.

Now at one of the most difficult times in my life, she has decided that we are not friends again. Not sure what I did. It's okay. She has lots of good friends now and a wonderful social life. She's happy and in a good space - that's what is important. She's involved in a sport that I could never do. I don't have the endurance or the stamina - besides, my spine would probably fall out! Of course, smoking doesn't help, but that's the stress in my life at work. So, my former friend is in a better space without me. I guess the difficulties in my life are too much for some people. I never want to be a burden to anyone. I never want to cause someone else pain or hurt. Anger and resentment is a poison that slowly takes over every fiber of our being - it influences our thoughts and actions. I've been working hard at not letting these poisoned emotions into my life. Bitterness too, can make one ugly.

I guess what it all boils down to is that I must be a pretty pathetic person. I have an incurable cancer that will eventually rob me of my life. The stress of not knowing when and if the disease will strike full force is maddening. I've tried for many years to help my husband beat his drug addiction. It has finally come to the point where I had to leave him. Now I find myself living as a single parent raising my soon to be teenage son alone. My brother has been kind enough to take us in. Now I face possibly losing my house. The hardest part of leaving my husband was leaving behind my father-in-law. He's always called me "the glue that holds the family together". Unfortunately, I have had to put my son and my health ahead of everything else and at all cost. My counts have been rising faster than they ever have before. I'm concerned but not frightened. I still feel pretty good. Some days I'm very tired and need to take long naps. Something I've never done before. I'm happy and not living with as much stress. I have my new hobby of cycling, which is pretty amazing. A sport I can do!!! I'm athletically impaired, but cycling is something I can actually do!

So, yes, I'm pathetic. But ya know what? I'm happy and content. My son is happy and well-adjusted. Material things can come and go. Friends can come and go, but I'm satisfied with my life and the direction I'm now moving in. I'm blessed with the most incredible support and encouragement. When I put my head on my pillow, I can sleep peacefully.

I don't know what my future holds, but I know who holds my future! It is only in Him I find true peace.

Being Blocked on Facebook

Goodness! I have been blocked! Rec'd this email today:


i don't know if you've seen but i decided at this time to take you off my facebook as well as me taking me off of your facebook. if you would like an explantation I can provide you with one, but I feel its for the best. It is not as though I have anything to hide, because I never ever write anything personal or private on my facebook. When i see what you write, and I don't click onto your page, I just see it on my homepage, I scratch my head in disbelief. Wondering why you would write for the whole world to see all your personal business. It is odd to me. I just don't want to be reading about all that so I removed you.
I have really done a lot of thinking and I think it is for the best if we cease contact with each other. While I appreciate you asking about my running the half marathon, we really have nothing to say to one another. You have a lot on your plate and I really have no place in your world nor do you in mine. We are just too different and I can't see us having any sort of friendship now or probably ever.
I don't mean to be harsh. I also don't get why the forum people still come and read my blog. That is another thing that baffles me. I left there and people are still interested in what I have to say. With the way I curse on my blog you would think the forum peeps wouldn't want any part of that.
Anyway, I wish you all the best Karen. Stay healthy, eat healthy, continue biking or whatever you do for exercise. That guy Adam seems to be leading you in the right direction, I guess. Except, you should be able to eat whatever the heck you want to eat.
I am actually doing really great and I am in a good place now.

I'm not upset about this at all. People I have shared this with find it amusing.

It Has Been A While ... A Lot Has Happened...

So, I have not blogged since March. I don't anyone missed me either! LOL

Much has changed in my life. In May, I left my crack addicted husband. I packed up my son and sent him for a week to family in Colorado while I packed myself up and moved. My brother has been kind enough to let my son and I live in his house. It's the house I grew up in that my great grandfather built. So, it's kinda cool for Tyler to hear stories about the family and growing up.

Due to financial difficulties, I have not been able to stick to a raw diet. It has been difficult and I know I feel 100% better when I'm raw. My goal is to start juicing again and making green smoothies. I am enjoying summer fruits! I will blog about my progress.

So, living in my brother's house. My brother is currently living in Monroe, LA on a contract job assignment. However, I do not have the house to myself. I have a housemate. A Geek in the Attic. I will not use his real name but call him GitA. He's going thru a separation with his wife ): Seems like we get along very well. Actually, I could not ask for a better housemate. We work well together. He's good with Tyler too. He's fixed the brakes on my car, got me into cycling, nagged me about finances (thank you, GitA). We have not experienced any pettiness of any sort either. Although, he makes fun of raw foods and we don't see eye-to-eye on what healthy eating consists of, we get along. If only you could see his idea of a meal!!!! It is very scary. His meals are prepared foods, frozen and microwaved......ewwwwww! LOL

I've joined a cycling club. I rode 22 miles yesterday and took a 4-hour nap. Could it be that I'm seriously out of shape? Which I am! Or CLL fatigue? Hmmmmm.....I'll just ignore it and keep on cycling! Love riding my bike!!!! I hope to save up for a real road bike for next year! How cool would that be???

So, I must give a lot of love and credit to my CLLC Forum Friends who have supported me and seen me thru some hard times with leaving my husband. I appreciate their bluntness and telling me like it is. I appreciate the women who have taken me on as a "daughter" needing motherly advice. All of you are way to young to be my Mom! I love each one of you dearly! Without you, I would not have made it this far.

I appreciate the Facebook friends who have reached out to me too. The encouragement is priceless.